Staying in school after school hours or leaving early
Helpful advice to teachers
Be a role model. In some cases an adult, including teachers, may display bullying behaviour towards young people. Experiences that make young people feel bullied by teachers include:
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Consistently being singled out in class and ‘made an example of’
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Being labelled as the ‘disruptive’ one
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Teachers making jokes at a pupil’s expense.
Teachers that exhibit this kind of behaviour have a direct emotional impact on a young people and contribute to a perception in other young people that bullying this individual is acceptable
Get educated about bullying. Should be able to differentiate between bullying and conflict
Reasons of bullying
Compensating for their own unhappiness or feeling of being powerless
Lack of attention in household
To exercise power on others
Past experiences of bullying or abuse
Be stressed, depressed or feel rejected
Have low self-esteem
Not accepting the difference with others such as gender, caste, appearance, race, ethnicity, color etc.
Non shaming approach
Research shows Blaming and shaming has no effect on behavior of bully
Instead generating empathy towards the victim, condemning the behavior can change bully’s intention
Having a joint meeting with the harassed student and the student who is bullying is not suggested since it is humiliating and threatening for the bullied student.
Ways to seek help
Have knowledge of school’s anti-bullying policy
Recording and Reporting the bullying incidence to higher authorities such as Principal and school counsellors
If school’s anti-bullying policy is lacking information, there are plenty of useful websites that can help you, such as